Today my friend asked me to take an personality quiz in the face book ,the results which came out was incidentally believable.Also the result of her's was very true.I got my results that I am very flexible,adapatable, spontaneous, outgoing, friendly etc etc...list s endless appreciation of the character.This made me compare my results with many of my friends and I started thinking about the way people lead their life in this world because it was 50-50 kinda results. I think every human being is unique and they have the right to stay that way, different from the world.
I guess all human being gets treated like a mouldable commodity.In a world that is filled with as many desires, as many ways, as many temperaments, as many choices ....as many people, we can never find peace and happiness, if we do not learn to know the differences positively.
The father prefers only salwars and his adolescent daughter prefers jeans and t-shirts.The father succeeds but loses the love of his daughter.The husband spends the lifetime to change the wife, instead of celebrating the differences he is able to see in her.In fact the whole family from husband to sister's in law to mother -in -law gets in to the ritual of converting the new girl in to what they call as "this is our family type".Again every human being has the right to stay in his/her own way.
In life, nothing repeats and what can be repeated has no life in it.It is not without a reason that everything in this creation is unique.Differences are the very spice of life.Celebrate the uniqueness in others and we will begin to cherish our own uniqueness and we will be able to see the difference in the world positively.
See this world of abundance with the positive vision of appreciating the differences. A whole new world will unfold and a new life will be awaiting...
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Awesome write up.
ReplyDeleteI whole heartedly agree with you. infact my husband also told me the same thing,"You will see a differnt you in a few months". I was so upset and angry at that point of time. But Yes, I did change. Positive to others but may not be to me, I had lost my identity at the cost of my happiness alone, but not others. So now I am unable to decide am I supposed to live for others or myself. I realise when we get married we get married into THE family. So we are expected to be like THEM.I am a single entity and expected to change. My sole happiness in the entire episode is that my hubby is happy seeing me change BUT.. what about me? Yes i am glad he is happy cos I want to see him happy, but I am frustated when I see myself at times..Well that is life I guess and I flow along with it...............