Thursday, August 27, 2009

To live by it is freedom

Today my friend asked me to take an personality quiz in the face book ,the results which came out was incidentally believable.Also the result of her's was very true.I got my results that I am very flexible,adapatable, spontaneous, outgoing, friendly etc etc...list s endless appreciation of the character.This made me compare my results with many of my friends and I started thinking about the way people lead their life in this world because it was 50-50 kinda results. I think every human being is unique and they have the right to stay that way, different from the world.
I guess all human being gets treated like a mouldable commodity.In a world that is filled with as many desires, as many ways, as many temperaments, as many choices ....as many people, we can never find peace and happiness, if we do not learn to know the differences positively.
The father prefers only salwars and his adolescent daughter prefers jeans and t-shirts.The father succeeds but loses the love of his daughter.The husband spends the lifetime to change the wife, instead of celebrating the differences he is able to see in her.In fact the whole family from husband to sister's in law to mother -in -law gets in to the ritual of converting the new girl in to what they call as "this is our family type".Again every human being has the right to stay in his/her own way.
In life, nothing repeats and what can be repeated has no life in it.It is not without a reason that everything in this creation is unique.Differences are the very spice of life.Celebrate the uniqueness in others and we will begin to cherish our own uniqueness and we will be able to see the difference in the world positively.
See this world of abundance with the positive vision of appreciating the differences. A whole new world will unfold and a new life will be awaiting...

Thursday, August 13, 2009

Lost in life

This topic is not about attitude and not about paradigms, but it made me think so much when I happen to see many people who are so lost in life without understanding what it is.Man has trained dolphins to perform antics, elephants to cycle and tigers to jump through rings of fire. Man has established his supremacy over every other life form.
Yet in our daily life, we meet people with Masters in Management who cannot manage their own habits; Chartered Accountants unable to live the life that they envisioned: Doctors doing the things that they know are harmful to their own body; Teachers unable to provide direction to their own children. The list goes on…. Why is it so? Why do people even after achieving phenomenal success still seem so lost in life?
I think We need Self-knowledge, Self-understanding, Self-mastery to overcome this aspect.
Man alone can nurture his own nature. Everything about life is born to a nature, lives within its nature and dies to that nature. Even at the time of cavemen, a beehive was an engineering marvel and so it remains even today. Nothing about the bee or the beehive has changed, but where is today's man compared to that caveman?
I think its high time we have to develop and nurture our quality of thoughts , from chaotic thinking to clarity thinking, We have to be the master of our own emotions.
We need to have a transformation from a life of 'either this or that' to a life of 'this AND that'… a balance… in the life and thereby start living in a more positive way without being lost in life .
Enliven the spiritual, emotional,intellectual , mental and physical personalities of your life.